Friday, December 31, 2010

Steppin' on 2011

Another five hours and kaboom!, we present you 2011. :)
So like every year, since 2008, I shall now write a farewell note to 2010 and welcome 2011. That's a little hard to do when you can't remember much about the year that went by, but at the same time, remember the slightest of things in the most intricate way possible. (Dear readers, I've stopped making sense) :)

Anyhow. The past year has been no exception to being a roller coaster ride. It had everything, starting from new experiences like the Boards, new people, new things, wants, ambitions, love,drifting apart, friendship, heart breaks, achievements, euphoria, epiphanies..
11th grade was supposed to be the year of adventure and self-realization, yada yada. Well all of that happened. Shit happened. A LOT of it. I was hardly in class the whole year, cause I was either out on a competition or up to something else. 11th grade taught me what's it like to actually fail a subject, and laugh about it. 11th grade initiated new friendships, fun, laughs, jokes, pet names.

Apart from school, year '10 has kicked some serious sense in to me. I figured it's useless screwing your head over things and people. It's just not worth it. At the end of the day we all are individuals with different lives, thoughts, and everybody wants different things. There's no point expecting a lot out of people cause you end up with disappointment. Not always, but that's where the difference lies. The expectations that have to be full filled will be, the one's which don't- there's not point screwing your day and head up for it.
I've learnt to chill. To be on my own, pay heed to things and people who pay heed me and be happy with life around me, and let it be.. Yeap, I sure have learnt to let it be. Things will work out if they have to, and if they don't- I've learnt to move ahead.

Like every year, I made good decisions, and bad ones. And like always, I don't regret them. None at all. Few achievements that  I made this year made me very very proud of myself, and I'm glad I could live up to my own expectations.. There was a point of time when I felt absolutely unworthy and untalented, but it was a phase and it's passed. I've learnt that at times, you need to figure out what you want, and not always worry about the rest of the world. It's not worth it, if it doesn't make you satisfied and happy. There's no point being sad and upset about some nagging thought or reason that keeps you dead and deprives you the adrenal of the living. Cause I swear, as the cliched goes, life's too short- you need to live it. Not for the world, but for yourself. People who have to stay will stay, forcing any body's presence won't etch that person in your book, it'll only erode the feeble remains of the good memories you might have made together. When something ends for the good, it's better to just close it with the final dot and treasure it as an experience that helped you grow and made you smile.

As the past year reflects on my mind, I'm so happy and content.. cause the people in it are the ones I always hoped for. Few people have been a rock solid pillar for me, through thick and thin.. They've truly helped me realize myself and the latent strength that was dormant in me. I've realized that there are some relations that'll never fade away....cause they're a part of what I am now, and they'll grow old with me :)

I might not ever be perfect, I'm not competing for it either. I'm flawed. I'm happy for what I am, and I hope to always toast a cheer to what a beautiful bokeh of colors my life is becoming with each and every second ticking by with the imperfection of perfect people, things, and the time- that's only running, but I'm catching up well with it :)

For those of you who're in my life and those who are about to enter in--- A very happy new year to all of you. It's been a joyride and it just becomes better and better with time, as you guys multiply and my entourage just grows bigger and brighter.
For those of you who aren't --- I wish you all the same, and good luck. And whatever the reason be for drifting apart, for the good or the worst- I am sure to miss you somewhere, some how, in some odd minute of the day :)

Cheers to all of you guys, and lets bring in 2011!



Much love,regards and well wishes,
Nil.

23 comments:

  1. Thank you so much! the very same to you :-)

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  2. Yo I know you're pissed, and I said I'm sorry Cherr! REPLY TO MY EMAIL ALREADY BRATT!
    I'm sorry yo! And hey Happy new year brat! I know you musta partied like crazy hey! we guys had a crash too, mrill got home so zonked yo she's off limits! >=D
    reply to my mail ok, sheesh stop the heat yo cherr!

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  3. Oh hello Rohan Abot, so nice of you to actually stop by for a change and grace my blog with your graceful presence :-)

    Cold much? Yeah. I know. And you deserved every bit of it :-)

    haha no I'm not pissed loser. About your email, yeah.. I've just been REALLY lazy and not replied to a single mail in my inbox. Will do soon. ahha tell me all about new years ok, tell your ass of a sister to call me, theres no point telling you or your girlfriend chemistry might ditch you :-)

    Yes. I plan to be cold to you for a while,. .hurraaay! >:D

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  4. Aww come on yo cherr! Coldness ain't my platter hey! I'm sorry, I said i'm so sorry!
    and ahah about mrill, get on chat?

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  5. Yes,I know. But I will. Today. If that's what it takes to get you over the cold face! SEE? = )

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  6. Awwww that's so sweet! :")


    Go fetch a life loser.

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  7. Chat, please? okay, shall call you soon yo! we have so much to catch up on! mrill was complainin' the other day too!

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  8. I plan to block your number just about NOW.

    All you brother and sister do is just effing complain. Now if you're nice enough to please leave my blog alone and spare my readers the horror of our very freindly conversation here, shall we? :-)

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  9. =/

    woah slow down there roar lady!
    alright alright yo we'll talk on chat soon hey!

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  10. Heh! I feel awesome when someone calls your brat!

    Happy New year to all of you! Much love!

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  11. Happy new year sweetheart....so much love to u and ur happiness and i want more n more genius writings :D

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  12. @TBG: You'd be surprised at the number of people who call me that, actually :P haha, to you too!
    Love :)


    @Meera: Thanks love, to you too! I miss you man!

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  13. @Scribbling girl: thanks love! to you too! awwwww babe, you're the sweetest ever.
    Take care and party well! ;)
    love!

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  14. Hey first of all, sorry for not appearing in ur comments since long time. I do read all your blogs regularly. I always get awed by the way words get flown in your blogs. Keep writing and exploring the world. Happy New year dear.

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  15. Hope you had a great start to the new year ...

    and hope all ur wishes come true in the new year ...

    Bikram's

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  16. @Banu: Aww thats okay dear, I'm glad you're back! hapyp new year to you too! :D

    @Bikram: Thanks, I wish the very same for you!

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  17. My favourite par "That's a little hard to do when you can't remember much about the year that went by, but at the same time, remember the slightest of things in the most intricate way possible. (Dear readers, I've stopped making sense) :) " and 'People who have to stay will stay, forcing any body's presence won't etch that person in your book, it'll only erode the feeble remains of the good memories you might have made together. "

    Awesome post, as always. Hope you'll have an absolutely awesome year ahead. In 12th, that is ;)

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  18. haha thanks charu! ur a sweetheart :-)

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